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		<title>What If&#8230;All Baby Boomers Decided to be Healthy and Wealthy?</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alexandra Barrett</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Imagine this: Seventy seven million baby boomers make a pact to take back their happy healthy image and birthright, and ALL become healthy and wealthy within the next year or two! Seriously, look at this now! Boomers are a gigantic brain trust of information, experience, and know how. They have been down &#8211; raised by [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><h2>Imagine this: Seventy seven million baby boomers make a pact to take back their happy healthy image and birthright, and ALL become healthy and wealthy within the next year or two!</h2>
<p>Seriously, look at this now! Boomers are a gigantic brain trust of information, experience, and know how. They have been down &#8211; raised by &#8220;depression age&#8221; parents and grandparents. They have been up &#8211; lived through some of the very best of economic times, great freakin&#8217; rock music, comparative castles for homes, waged war on everything from terrorism to drugs to cancer, and are still better at most jobs than their children and grandchildren will ever be.</p>
<p>Boomers are world travelers, can do most anything you can come up with; they are gym rats, social media marketers, and can learn a language in 90 days.</p>
<p>Baby Boomers went back to school online and became honors students with Masters after age 50 or 60!  They have lost all their money once or twice and made it back on the next entrepreneurial venture or two without passing out in the sweat &#8211; even if they did lose a house or two in foreclosure. They are experts at picking themselves up, dusting themselves off and getting right back in the game.</p>
<p>Boomers have survived layoffs, divorce, child support, custody cases, 9/11, and a few lyin&#8217;-cheatin&#8217; presidents, and they&#8217;re not dead yet! They changed jobs like sweaty gym shorts, made it through the dot.com boom and bust while changing hats as frequently as needed. Boomers have tried every religion on the planet from Tibet to Rome to Utah. They are as self- developed and natural health-ed as anyone will ever be. They have been medicated and meditated.</p>
<h2><strong>Baby  Boomers &#8211; WE &#8211; survived it all. What else is there?  Really? </strong></h2>
<p>What if:</p>
<blockquote><p>Boomers decided to act on all that knowledge and stop buying into  the massive programming about prescriptions, high blood pressure, weight loss programs, motorized scooters, guilt about the end of the world, and spending the grand kids inheritance!</p></blockquote>
<p>What if they said</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;NO MORE!&#8221; to terrorists, politically correct speech, being robbed by drug using grandchildren, illegal aliens, and handing out money they busted their asses to make, and bailouts paid for with our tax dollars? What if they quit banks and bought gold?</p></blockquote>
<p>What if they said &#8220;N-O!&#8221; to the media mind set about the boomer health image promoted and paid for by the drug companies and instead decided to prove them all wrong? What if: Boomers decided to walk every day, eat whatever makes them feel REALLY good, work as long as they want to, and said &#8220;to hell with social security just give me back everything I invested!&#8221;</p>
<h2>It can be done, you know! It can. We can.</h2>
<h2>There is a SEVENTY SEVEN MILLION strong mindset that says we can do anything we put our minds to if we want to.  Who wants to join me? I am game if you are!</h2>
<p><strong><br />
Start here: Do what you can do. Make your list and check it twice. </strong></p>
<blockquote><p>1. New mental image.<br />
2. Walk daily morning.<br />
3. Filtered water every hour.<br />
4. No more red meat.<br />
5. Lots of fresh veggies and fruits.<br />
6. Daily protein powder drinks.<br />
7. Daily gym-you got to move to improve.Do something to first strengthen your upper body-arms-back. Start light then build.<br />
8.Meditate daily. Just clear your head of all the chatter for 15 minutes so you can tell when its actually you thinking and not another instant replay.<br />
9. Acknowledge God&#8217;s life in you many times daily. Feel &#8220;the Light that never fails&#8221; no matter what name you call that Light.<br />
10. Be gratitude-filled daily.<br />
11. Reduce medications gradually as you feel better.<br />
12. Stop making excuses.<br />
13. Stop thinking  of yourself as an old fart.<br />
14. Stop acting like an old fart.<br />
15. Go on vacation as often as you can.<br />
16. Discover IntraMax liquid vitamins by Dr.Drucker. (the best I ever found!)<br />
17.Start treating yourself like today is the first day of your future.<br />
18.Fall in love with first with yourself and then with your spouse again.<br />
19.Walk daily evenings after dinner. (beach, park, school)<br />
20. Hang around younger people and raise your energetic vibration to match theirs.<br />
21.Be positive.Think positive. Act positive. Speak positive.<br />
22. Focus only on what you can do. Forget what you cannot do. You&#8217;ll get there or you won&#8217;t.<br />
23. Buy a mini trampoline and use it. (they come with handrails if needed).<br />
24. Learn to increase your oxygen via all the above methods.<br />
25. Mean it!<br />
26. If you live near the ocean go sit in the water as often as you can. Take your chair and get 20 minutes of sun too.<br />
27. Get 20 minutes of sun daily anyway. (you need the vitamin D)<br />
29. Write about your life and find the passion, the experience, the purpose. If you don&#8217;t want to write, record it.<br />
30.Make an endless list of all the things you still want to do and start doing them.<br />
31. Do something you have always wanted to do and do NOT be afraid and if you are, feel the fear and do it anyway!<br />
32. Get your teeth fixed, have your eyes done, whatever; just do something that makes you feel good that maybe no one else thinks you should &#8220;waste your money (their inheritance) on!&#8221;<br />
33. Buy that boat, collectible car, beach house or whatever it is you used to promise yourself you&#8217;d have one day and celebrate your new beginning!</p>
<p>34. Garden. Sing. Dance. Ride a bike.</p>
<p>35. Find a Core Health Workshop and get your &#8220;will to live&#8221; back up to 100% asap.</p>
<p>36.Find a Heart Forgiveness Workshop and forgive yourself then everybody else -  from your heart not your head. Take back your life!</p></blockquote>
<p><strong>Most Important-Find a friend and support each other.</strong></p>
<p>Start a Meetup group and make your lists. Make a plan and see it through. Live like each day has meaning the way one does when one is looking toward the FUTURE not at the PAST. Face forward and walk toward the sun!</p>
<p>See you in a year! Good Luck and <strong><em>Have Fun!</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>I Am Alexandra Barrett and I am a healthy, wealthy boomer!!!<br />
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		<title>Why Web 2.0 and Social Bookmarking Really Works&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Sep 2008 16:32:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Michael Barrett</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Why Web 2.0 and Social Bookmarking Really Works&#8230; [media:http://healthywealthyboomer.com/audio/why_web_2.0_really_works.mp3] One aspect of the internet that has always amazed me is how intimate digital communication can actually be. Objectively you wouldn&#8217;t think so &#8211; letters typed on a screen. How can that be intimate? All I know is that I have been brought to tears on [...]]]></description>
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<p>One aspect of the internet that has always amazed me is how intimate digital communication can actually be.</p>
<p>Objectively you wouldn&#8217;t think so &#8211; letters typed on a screen. How can that be intimate? All I know is<br />
that I have been brought to tears on numerous occasions through a touching and thoughtful email or<br />
blog post.</p>
<p>Every so often I forget about my amazement until I am reminded by a passionate and emotionally open piece &#8211; created by a caring and tuned in person.</p>
<p>Maybe it&#8217;s the emotional honesty that is so striking ; maybe it&#8217;s authenticity. Maybe it&#8217;s intent. Maybe<br />
it&#8217;s intention.</p>
<p>Some of us learn early in life that it&#8217;s ok to express emotion and it&#8217;s safe to be who we really are.</p>
<p>Others have a tougher challenge to overcome as adults because we learn early in our experience that it<br />
isn&#8217;t safe and that individual expression equates to punishment, demeaned self esteem and retribution.</p>
<p>For the former, the realm of emotion and self esteem is a playground, a joyful experiment and an exciting<br />
and interesting game. Mistakes are not only allowed and tolerated, they are encouraged. Life is fun.</p>
<p>For the latter &#8211; as a child &#8211; survival depends on being transparent, invisible, unheard and unspoken, because being seen and heard equates to pain &#8211; emotional or otherwise. Mistakes must be avoided because they are flags that draw attention.</p>
<p>Life is scary.</p>
<p>For the person with low self esteem, it&#8217;s a really big deal and it takes courage to express oneself openly in relationships, socially or on the Net, in contrast to who those already understand that it&#8217;s ok to be who they are in public.</p>
<h3>The Impact on Baby Boomers&#8230;</h3>
<p>These issues are particularly true for Baby Boomers because we are the generation once removed from the Great Depression and the direct social descendants of the WW2 generation.</p>
<p>Men were silent about their pain and fears. It was the way they survived the horrors so many of them saw in the war and their memories of hunger and scarcity in the Great Depression as kids.</p>
<p>As such, Boomers were trained to emulate this same emotional behavior en masse &#8211; just by observing the way many of our fathers maintained a distance and a consistent lack of emotional expression, masking all that pain.</p>
<p>We directly reflect these attitudes and social mores as a group and this <em><strong>self esteem polarity</strong></em> seems to be more pronounced in us as a result.</p>
<h3>How One Person Really Makes A Difference</h3>
<p><object width="350" height="270" align="left"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/NLF9iEXnBRo&#038;hl=en&#038;fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/NLF9iEXnBRo&#038;hl=en&#038;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" width="350" height="270"></embed></object>What was it, for example, about seeing <strong>Paul Potts</strong> &#8211; a frumpy, self conscious and humble cell phone salesman singing his heart out on Britain&#8217;s Got Talent, that so dramatically impacted observers emotionally?</p>
<p>And it did&#8230;</p>
<p>There was not a dry eye in the house when he finished his performance.</p>
<p>Was it the amazing power of his voice?</p>
<p>Yes, partially.</p>
<p>Was it the fact that he allowed his personal power and magnificence to shine through for the first time in his life &#8211; and expose his true spirit &#8211; in spite of his absolute internal discomfort and fear of failure?</p>
<p>Most definitely.</p>
<p>Was it because instinctively we all sensed that the magnitude of the risk he was taking was so large that most of us would never have taken that risk?</p>
<p>Yes, that too.</p>
<p>Was it because we knew he was taking the biggest chance of his life and that the risk didn&#8217;t just benefit Paul Potts, it benefited humanity?</p>
<p>There was a sort hush from the sense of awe that the audience experienced observing greatness unepxectedly. Somehow we all grew from his courage and simultaneously we all experienced emotional cleansing through a widespread &#8220;release&#8221;.</p>
<p>And a new understanding.</p>
<p>The collective human consciousness expanded a step further towards goodness and truth and the Creator within each of us just by his willingness to face his greatest fear and follow his true path for the first time in his life.</p>
<p>On some level we were all elevated. We rose up. We expanded. And we also learned &#8211; clearly &#8211; that if he could do it, we can too.</p>
<h3>And this happens each and every time someone speaks his (her) truth authentically&#8230;</h3>
<p>This amazing vehicle we call the &#8220;Net&#8221; is fast becoming a collective consciousness development program &#8211; that expands as rapidly as our ability to understand and utilize it &#8211; almost along the lines of the &#8220;holographic universe&#8221;.  So through it all, truth (or the lack of it) permeates all communication. On some level, we can not hide who we truly are when we are active participants because somehow the collective consciousness can sense the authenticity and passion.</p>
<p>Many times in the past I have taken exception to the zealous attitude that blogging purists have taken regarding their antipathy towards internet marketers &#8211; somehow equating making money and self promotion with a lowering of standards and an intrusion into &#8220;their world&#8221;.</p>
<p>But the cool part is that in the bigger picture, we can&#8217;t fool anyone when we are not being authentic.</p>
<p>So as the Net consciousness continues to expand collectively, those who are not acting in truth and for the overall betterment and growth of all involved will begin to stand out more obviously through contrast &#8211; <strong>digitally and instantaneously</strong>.</p>
<p>Social bookmarking and web 2.0 are therefore part of the natural progression of free expression and the natural evolution of the Internet.</p>
<p>And those who do not adapt will become extinct Internet dinosaurs.</p>
<p>The days of the used car salesman types online are coming to an end <strong>naturally</strong> as the Net becomes a greater and more accurate expression of human consciousness.</p>
<p>Authenticity and integrity will overcome self serving behavior and manipulation as the default of expansion and growth. It is inevitable because it will  cost too much money to sustain the facade as more and more people get the message and click away to something more in alignment with what they are looking for.</p>
<p>So Web 2.0 and social bookmarking really work because, on an individual level, it is a safe environment for self expression.  There is safety of sorts simply through anonymity in and of itself.</p>
<p>But Web 2.0 has also inadvertently emerged as a development tool for self esteem because authenticity is encouraged, congratulated  and supported time and again through comments, posts on other blogs,  back links and active readership.</p>
<p>It is becoming a platform for high self esteem where we can grow self esteem through the process of helping others and by receiving complements and recognition for good work on a consistent basis.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s amazing how the universe works even through an electronic communication medium.</p>
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